For many of us in the Baby Boomer generation, a good many of our battles are behind us. We survived childhood, battling measles, chicken pox, mumps and the practices of drinking from the garden hose and riding in the back window of the car. God was definitely sending His angels to watch over us. My mother’s biggest fear for her children was polio and she made us take a nap every day during the summer (somehow summer was worse for polio). I hated those naps; now I love them!
We made it through our teenage years with no atomic bomb, but we had those drills to prepare us. Although too many of us did not survive the Vietnam War, those of us who were fortunate were able to begin our adult lives. Some of us went to college, some got jobs, and some got married and started families. We survived those early years of adulthood, stretching our paychecks and saving our Green Stamps. We had babies and managed to keep them alive (more angels!), we worked hard to raise them right and teach them about the Lord. Then they left us, becoming responsible adults, eventually with families of their own.
We became grandparents and had to relearn everything about babies because we found out we didn’t know anything. The rules changed! Do they sleep on their backs or stomachs? We struggled with complicated car seats and strollers. I still have flashbacks to the parking lot at Dillard’s trying to figure out how to fold the stroller and get it back in the car while a toddler howled in her car seat.
Many of us are now retired. We have completed are careers and are now finding new ways to be useful. In theory we have more time now, but the time whizzes by at breakneck speed! Some of us are now (gasp) great-grandparents and chuckle at our kids wrestling with car seats. But one of my favorite pictures is of my daughter falling in love with her new baby granddaughter. Pure love!
So even though there are challenges ahead, we have completed the biggest part of our earthly assignments. As I thought abut these things, this verse from my quiet time particularly resonated with me: …”and having done all, to stand firm,” Ephesians 6;13b. We still need to stand firm, and that might be our most important job right now.
My Bible study group (https://www.communitybiblestudy.org) has been doing a study called Return to Jerusalem and currently we are looking at the life of Nehemiah and the rebuilding of the Jerusalem wall. In last week’s lesson the Jews completed building the wall (in only 52 days!) so Nehemiah’s next job was to make sure what they had accomplished was protected. He needed to stand firm. He did this by appointing gatekeepers to control who came in and left the city and guards to patrol the walls and guard the houses.
As I was reading these words I thought of my family and especially my grandchildren. As parents and grandparents we have done our jobs but we need guards at the gates and watchers on the walls. I am so grateful that all my children and grandchildren have a saving relationship with the Lord, but that relationship must be carefully guarded because we have an enemy who would love to come in and confuse them and capture their hearts and minds. My job now is to be a watchman, to stand firm.
Although I don’t have as much daily influence as I did when my children were small, I have all of the armor of God that Ephesians 6 describes: the belt of Truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shoes that equip me to spread the gospel, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit (God’s Word). And then verse 18 admonishes us to pray at all times, to keep alert with all perseverance, and to pray for all the saints. I love how The Message version completes this verse:
In the same way, prayer is essential in this ongoing warfare. Pray hard and long. Pray for your brothers and sisters. Keep your eyes open. Keep each other’s spirits up so that no one falls behind or drops out.
This is how I can guard the gates and keep watch on the walls. I can pray. Jerry and I have really ramped up our prayer lives this year. And although many of my big battles are behind me, my job as a guard and watchman is not over. This is how I stand firm.